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By the Bi

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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela,

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  • 432 - Blue Cinema History

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    Before streaming, before OnlyFans, before incognito mode — there were blue cinemas. This week, we’re peeling back the curtain on the forgotten world of adult movie theaters: where porn was communal, seats were sticky, and trench coats weren’t just for the weather.We’re talking about how these spaces shaped everything from censorship laws to queer cruising culture, why the U.S. Supreme Court once had to define porn (and totally failed), and how a moody French romance film sparked a legal firestorm. Plus: what’s left today — and how places like Hush in Sydney are keeping the flicker alive in a very modern way.Grab your popcorn (or maybe… don’t) — we’re going in deep.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on!

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  • 431 - Navigating the Drop

    54:51|
    This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into a topic that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough—the post-kink and party drop. Whether it’s after an intense BDSM scene, an emotionally charged connection, or a euphoric night at a lifestyle event, the crash that follows can be real, raw, and confusing.In this episode, we explore what “the drop” feels like, why it happens, and how to care for yourself—and your partners—when the high fades. From physical fatigue to emotional vulnerability, Angela and Bradford share their personal experiences, aftercare strategies, and tips to help you come down gently and reconnect with yourself after the play is over.Tune in for an honest, compassionate conversation about the less glamorous—but deeply important—side of kink and party culture. Because pleasure is powerful, but so is the recovery that follows.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on!
  • 430 - Party Time

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    Venture beyond the velvet rope with us into a world where fantasy meets reality in grand, public settings. From the anticipation of dressing up to the thrill of stepping into a room buzzing with like-minded adventurers, discover what makes these events a magnet for those curious about or deeply embedded in the kink community.In this episode, Angela and Bradford share their perspectives on the vibrant atmosphere, the community etiquette, and the unforgettable moments they’ve experienced. They’ll delve into the unique features of parties, discuss safety measures, and highlight how these gatherings foster a sense of belonging and exploration among attendees.Whether you’re considering attending your first kink party or just love hearing about the kinky escapades of others, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a few tips to make your experience as thrilling as possible. Tune in to By the Bi and subscribe for more real-life stories from the fascinating world of kink and beyond!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on!
  • 429 - And We're Back!

    01:03:26|
    We’re back, baby! After a little time away, we’re reconnecting, recharging, and ready to dive back into all things By the Bi. In this episode, we catch you up on where we’ve been, what’s been brewing, and how damn good it feels to be back in your ears.But that’s not all—strap in as we take you inside our latest (and dare we say greatest?) Pendulum Party yet. From sexy surprises to magical moments, this one had it all. Whether you were there and want to relive it, or you’re dreaming of your first swing into the scene, this episode is your invitation to join the ride.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on!
  • 428 - Pegging Pleasure

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    Dive deep into the exhilarating world of pegging with our special double feature re-release of Episodes 83 and 84 of By the Bi! In these fan-favorite episodes, Angela and Bradford explore everything you need to know about pegging—from the basics of getting started to advanced tips for those looking to enhance their experience. Discover the joys, challenges, and intimate bonding that pegging can bring to a relationship.Whether you’re curious newcomers or seasoned enthusiasts, these episodes provide valuable insights and advice. Tune in now to rediscover why pegging has become such a beloved topic among our listeners, and don’t forget to subscribe to By the Bi for more engaging and informative discussions!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on!
  • 427 - Biconic Mardi Gras 2025

    45:48|
    Join Angela and Bradford on a vibrant journey in this episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating experience marching with Biconic at the Mardi Gras parade. Immerse yourself in the pulsating beats, vivid colors, and spirited cheers that define one of the most iconic celebrations of LGBTQ+ pride and diversity. From the flurry of feathers and sequins to the powerful messages of love and acceptance, our hosts share their personal highlights and the unforgettable moments that made this event a landmark in their lives.Listen as they dive into the significance of Mardi Gras for the bisexual community, the joyful camaraderie among the marchers, and the broader impact of such public expressions of identity and solidarity. Whether it was the roar of the crowd or the quieter, poignant exchanges behind the scenes, Angela and Bradford bring you the full spectrum of their Mardi Gras experience with Biconic.Tune in and let the spirit of Mardi Gras inspire you. Don’t forget to subscribe to By the Bi for more stories of adventure, activism, and advocacy in the vibrant world of LGBTQ+ celebrations.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on!
  • 426 - Tales of Recent Debauchery

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    This week we talk about some of our excursions and play we’ve had at Chateau Vino in Gold Cost, an afternoon with The Gentleman, and more!Sit back and enjoy some sexy stories.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on!