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#122 Into the Malebag 4

Tue Sep 11 2018 (59:31)

Once again we have had many a message cross our desk and we've decided that we need to delve into them... So we are. We have dug through the malebag and picked a few of our recent messages from email, Twitter, Facebook and Instagram to answer them here. We always appreciate the messages we get and love responding to them! Hopefully you find the information useful as well.So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!Find us on social media!!!On Twitter@BytheBi ...

#121 Another Sexy Product Review

Tue Sep 04 2018 (01:08:20)

In this episode we give a brief update on Our Sexpo Australia episode and then we go straight into the meat and potatoes which is a whole heap of reviews on some of the products we’ve purchased and played with over the last few months.We cover lubes, butt plugs, and even sexy chapstick (yes you read that right.)So go grab a drink!Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!Please check out ourPatreonpage!Find us on social media!!!On Twitter@BytheBiPodcastOn FacebookBytheBiPodca ...

#120 Pendulum VII

Tue Aug 28 2018 (01:13:04)

Welcome back listeners! In this episode we discuss our most recent Pendulum Party at Our Secret Spot. (It was number 7!) We invited The Gentleman to come back and discuss his experience at Pendulum with us too. Later in the episode, we also talked about our sexy Saturday morning and then Sunday in the city, including a trip to Maxx Black and an overnight with some amazing photos!Whew... what a weekend!!!So go grab a drink!Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!Please ch ...

#119 Sexpo, Switch, and VR Porn

Tue Aug 21 2018 (01:11:57)

Welcome back listeners! This week we are discussing our trip to Adelaide for Sexpo Australia. We address the fun and the major problems that Sexpo Australia has to offer. We then talk about going to a BDSM party, that we got invited to, called Switch. Lastly we chat VR Porn. We were lucky enough to get to meet and interview Michelle Flynn the brains and talent behind Lightsouthern, Australia. Links from the show are:Lightsouthern: https://lightsouthern.com/Peer Rope Adelaide: https://www.pe ...

#118 Sexcapades V

Tue Aug 14 2018 (01:03:30)

Welcome back lovely listeners!In this episode, we talk about reconnecting with sexy folks after many many months. Bradford had another trip to a sauna where he gets one more reference on his skillz. And finally, we discuss an awesome meet and mingle that ended in an impromptu orgy at Our Secret Spot. (Yes... it's a thing.)So go grab a drink!Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!Find us on social media!!!On Twitter@BytheBiPodcastOn FacebookBytheBiPodcastOn Instagram@BytheB ...

#117 Roller Coaster Ride

Tue Aug 07 2018 (57:21)

Welcome back constant listener and new listeners alike. In this episode we chronicle an emotional tale of ups, downs, and how quickly we can fall back into very bad relationship habits. Yup, even us. A little while back, Mrs Atom had to take some medication that completely messed with her hormones and in a 24 hour period our relationship was knocked back a bit.Listen as we talk our way through this experience and what we've learned from it and how we would deal with it in the future. So go g ...

#116 Chats with Cooper

Tue Jul 31 2018 (01:00:51)

This week we sat down with a very good friend of ours and an icon of male bisexuality, Cooper S. Beckett, to discuss the importance of empathy, maintaining a positive attitude, and the similarities (and differences) between poly and swinger folks.Of course, we also take some time to discuss male bisexuality in the world and how we are affected by toxic masculinity and heteronormativity.So go grab a drink!Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!Find us on social media!!!On T ...

#115 Club Euphoria

Tue Jul 24 2018 (55:08)

Welcome back to Mr. Atom who is eager to regain control of the podcast! In this episode, we were lucky enough to catch up with the owners of Club Euphoria in Toledo Ohio to talk about how they got into the swinging business of sexy parties. We talk about their recent and extremely successful Pendulum 1.0 and their making it to the finalist list of the Annual Lifetime Awards. So go grab a drink!Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!Find us on social media!!!On Twitter@By ...

#114 The Gentleman Makes Waffles

Wed Jul 18 2018 (01:10:44)

What do baking cookies, sword fighting, turkey tap, and Chewbacca have in common?Yeah... I don't know either. But in the episode Mrs. Atom and The Gentleman tackle these subject matters and MORE. What results is a giggle fest like none we've experienced in a while.That's right, Mr. Atom is absent in this episode as he was traveling abroad and has no idea what is actually in this episode. (That's right, I write blurbs for podcasts I haven't listened to!)So go grab a drink!Then, sit back, enjoy, a ...

#113 Podcast Pen Pals

Tue Jul 10 2018 (01:15:50)

In this episode we start off with a couple of rants. That’s right we got out the soap boxes!Then we move to a Pen Pal letter from our wonderful friends Mr & Mrs H over at the Bed Hoppers Podcast. We answer their Q&A and Mr Atom does his “best” British accent... whilst ending up sounding like Mrs Doubtfire. So go grab a drink!Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!Find us on social media!!!On Twitter@BytheBiPodcastOn FacebookBytheBiPodcastOn Instagram@BytheBiPodcastOr emai ...

#112 Conversations with The Lady

Tue Jul 03 2018 (54:42)

We are joined again this week by the beautiful L0L0 Lady to discuss what's new in her world. Listen in as we talk everything from swinger resorts, to HPV, to birth control, to L0L0's favourite sex position.So go grab a drink!Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!Find us on social media!!!On Twitter@BytheBiPodcastOn FacebookBytheBiPodcastOn Instagram@BytheBiPodcastOr email ushereCheck out our OnlyFanspage hereWant to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us ...

#111 Swinger Jargon

Tue Jun 26 2018 (59:42)

Better late than never right?  We've had some conversations with swinger friends recently that alerted us to the fact that not everyone knows what some of the simple swinger jargon actually means.  We hope to remedy this issue with...

Better late than never right?  We've had some conversations with swinger friends recently that alerted us to the fact that not everyone knows what some of the simple swinger jargon actually means.  We hope to remedy this issue with this podcast where we go back to basics and discuss our definitions for some of the common words in the swinging vernacular. So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On ...

#110 Lube Up

Tue Jun 19 2018 (55:47)

Hello constant listener.  This episode is pretty slick as we discuss lube and manage to slide in a lot of information and facts that you won't find tacky at all!   That's right... it's a LUBE-isode!!!! So go grab a drink!  Then,...

Hello constant listener.  This episode is pretty slick as we discuss lube and manage to slide in a lot of information and facts that you won't find tacky at all!   That's right... it's a LUBE-isode!!!! So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Check out our OnlyFans page here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedb ...

#109 - Into the Malebag 3

Tue Jun 12 2018 (01:07:26)

Okay!!! We have had many an email in the recent past that we need to delve into.  So we do. We have dug through the malebag and picked a few of our recent messages from email, Twitter, Facebook and more to answer them here.  We always...

Okay!!! We have had many an email in the recent past that we need to delve into.  So we do. We have dug through the malebag and picked a few of our recent messages from email, Twitter, Facebook and more to answer them here.  We always appreciate the messages we get and love responding to them!  Hopefully you find the information useful as well. So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @ ...

#108 - Pendulum VI & Femme

Tue Jun 05 2018 (01:02:14)

Join us this week as we bring The Gentleman back tondiscuss our combined experiences at the most recent Pendulum party!  Oh, look at all the sexy people; where do they all come from!?! Then we let Mrs Atom enchant is with tales of Femme, the...

Join us this week as we bring The Gentleman back tondiscuss our combined experiences at the most recent Pendulum party!  Oh, look at all the sexy people; where do they all come from!?! Then we let Mrs Atom enchant is with tales of Femme, the First Ladies only night at Our Secret Spot. So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here C ...

#107 - The Chastity Challenge

Tue May 29 2018 (01:09:41)

Okay... so not too long ago whilst recording for "Dawns with Lakey" on the Hit Network here in Sydney we had this "great" idea to see which of the three of us could wear a chastity belt the longest.  As bad ideas go, this one was pretty...

Okay... so not too long ago whilst recording for "Dawns with Lakey" on the Hit Network here in Sydney we had this "great" idea to see which of the three of us could wear a chastity belt the longest.  As bad ideas go, this one was pretty terrible.  We'll go over a bit of the history of chastity belts and then dive into the worst, 31 and 39 hours we have ever spent.  We'll talk about everything from choosing our chastity devices to getting dressed, to peeing, to sleeping with our devices FIRMLY at ...

#106 - The Seven Contrary Virtues

Tue May 22 2018 (59:00)

Last week we discussed the Seven Deadly Sins.  This week we go in the opposite direction and discuss the Seven Contrary Virtues.  We delve into each of these virtues and discuss how we would use them to improve our own relationships and...

Last week we discussed the Seven Deadly Sins.  This week we go in the opposite direction and discuss the Seven Contrary Virtues.  We delve into each of these virtues and discuss how we would use them to improve our own relationships and those of our lifestyle play partners. We take each of the virtues:  Chastity, Temperance, Charity, Diligence, Patience, Kindness, and Humility and give real-world situations in which they can positively affect your swinging experience. So go grab a drink!  Then, ...

#105 - The Seven Deadly Sins

Tue May 15 2018 (59:33)

Welcome back!  In this episode, we discuss The Seven Deadly Sins and how they can affect your lifestyle experience.  The Seven Deadly Sins are so very prevalent in our society that we see examples of them every day and likely don't even...

Welcome back!  In this episode, we discuss The Seven Deadly Sins and how they can affect your lifestyle experience.  The Seven Deadly Sins are so very prevalent in our society that we see examples of them every day and likely don't even notice.  For instance, did you know that each of the characters from Gilligan's Island represents one of the sins? YES! - More on this in the podcast! We take each of the sins:  Lust, Greed, Envy, Wrath, Sloth, Gluttony, and Pride and give real-world situations i ...

#104 - Sexcapades IV

Tue May 08 2018 (57:31)

Once again we dive into some of our recent sexcapades.  Sit back and listen as we talk about a play session where we both took on roles we don't normally take on.   Bradford stepped into the role of Dom with a partner tieing her down to...

Once again we dive into some of our recent sexcapades.  Sit back and listen as we talk about a play session where we both took on roles we don't normally take on.   Bradford stepped into the role of Dom with a partner tieing her down to a bed whilst Angela took a much more passive role. We also talk about a live sex photo shoot we recently participated in. Finally, with may being Worldwide Masturbation Month, we have a question regarding masturbation and watching your partner. So go grab a drink ...

#103 - Miss Penelope Dreadful

Wed May 02 2018 (01:08:56)

Not too long ago we were lucky enough to sit down with Miss Penelope Dreadful a pro dom from Sydney who is known the around the world. Remember your safe word as we ask her to tell us her history and how she got into the pro dom world.  Laugh...

Not too long ago we were lucky enough to sit down with Miss Penelope Dreadful a pro dom from Sydney who is known the around the world. Remember your safe word as we ask her to tell us her history and how she got into the pro dom world.  Laugh (yes you're allowed) as we cut up with her and learn about some of the odd-odd requests.  Cringe as she tells us what she really likes. it was such an honor and a privilege to speak with "Penny" and we hope that you enjoy it as much as we did!  Yes, Mistres ...

#102 - (Dubious) Sex Facts

Wed Apr 25 2018 (01:03:13)

In this episode, we discuss an article that Mr. Atom found on "Sex Facts".  Admittedly many of these so-called facts are dubious at best and without sources to cite but that doesn't make them any less fun to discuss.   For...

In this episode, we discuss an article that Mr. Atom found on "Sex Facts".  Admittedly many of these so-called facts are dubious at best and without sources to cite but that doesn't make them any less fun to discuss.   For instance, ever wonder how many bacteria you exchange during kissing?  Or how many calories you burn with that romp in the hay? Well, now we do...  The article we reference can be found here. In the last bit of the podcast, we talk friendships.  We discuss our swinger and nonsw ...

In this episode, we talk with our good friends Naughty and Rocket of Naughty3some fame on Twitter.  We were lucky enough to spend a few days traveling the west coast of Australia with them and convinced them we should record a podcast in between...

In this episode, we talk with our good friends Naughty and Rocket of Naughty3some fame on Twitter.  We were lucky enough to spend a few days traveling the west coast of Australia with them and convinced them we should record a podcast in between adventures.   Along with their history and background, we'll discuss swinging in more remote, less populated areas.  We also talk about last years Passion in Paradise trip where we all met face to face for the first time and this year's impending trip to ...

#100 - Sintenary

Tue Apr 10 2018 (01:24:59)

Holy shit we've made it.  100 episodes!!!  From the first 13 episodes where our sound was, admittedly terrible, to all of the education and naughtiness in between; we have been through a lot the last 2 years. Join us as we remember the...

Holy shit we've made it.  100 episodes!!!  From the first 13 episodes where our sound was, admittedly terrible, to all of the education and naughtiness in between; we have been through a lot the last 2 years. Join us as we remember the highlights of this podcast.  The things we have done, the pictures we took, the friends we've made.  Speaking of friends we have a few of them on here.  We talk to many of your favorites in this episode about how THEIR lives have changed since we've been producing ...

#99 - The Origin Story

Tue Apr 03 2018 (01:00:43)

Hello constant listener!  As you know, we've told the "How We Started Swinging" story many a time but we've never let you into our "How We Met" story... UNTIL NOW! This week we talk about our own origin story and just like Bruce Banner and Tony...

Hello constant listener!  As you know, we've told the "How We Started Swinging" story many a time but we've never let you into our "How We Met" story... UNTIL NOW! This week we talk about our own origin story and just like Bruce Banner and Tony Stark, it's kinda sordid.  The Hulk and Ironman have nothing on our origin story!  You'll hear about how we met, our first date, our first hookup, when we finally decided to become an item, and when we got engaged. This one is all about history and it's a ...

#98 - An Orgy of a Weekend

Tue Mar 27 2018 (55:26)

Hello, constant listener and new listeners alike!  This week we review our weekend that had two nights spent at Our Secret Spot including a Sex Ed in the City class and OSS's 4th birthday party which had the place packed to the gills with...

Hello, constant listener and new listeners alike!  This week we review our weekend that had two nights spent at Our Secret Spot including a Sex Ed in the City class and OSS's 4th birthday party which had the place packed to the gills with sexiness.  There was also a crew from SBS filming for a show called Insight on Friday night and we give that crew a very honest, albeit harsh, review.  We also talk about Mr. Atom putting himself out there to ask a lady to play and, in our question of the week, ...

#97 - Interview with Our Favorite Pornstar

Tue Mar 20 2018 (01:10:31)

This week we are ecstatic to present an interview we had with the amazing Lucie Bee - Sex Worker, Geek, Queer, Activist, Pornstar... The list of this young lady's accomplishments goes on and on.  She's on You Can't Ask That, Triple J, Sexpo...

This week we are ecstatic to present an interview we had with the amazing Lucie Bee - Sex Worker, Geek, Queer, Activist, Pornstar... The list of this young lady's accomplishments goes on and on.  She's on You Can't Ask That, Triple J, Sexpo Australia, PAX, and featured on the cover of Penthouse magazine.  Lucie sat down with us and we discussed everything from sex work and how we can help make folks safer, to filming porn and pornography, to anal sex... Yeah, we cover A LOT in this hour.  Her pa ...

#96 - Vacation on the Seas

Tue Mar 13 2018 (01:00:19)

Hello, all and welcome back.  This week we come at you from The Ovation of the Seas.  We start by talking about vacation sex and what makes it so damn amazing and what we can ALL do to make our home sex lives similar to our away sex lives....

Hello, all and welcome back.  This week we come at you from The Ovation of the Seas.  We start by talking about vacation sex and what makes it so damn amazing and what we can ALL do to make our home sex lives similar to our away sex lives. Next, we had an email in our inbox from a listener about our headspace episodes that we wanted to read a few experts from and comment on.  As ALWAYS thank you to those who write in to us! Lastly, we talk porn.  We recently had a twitter message asking us what ...

#95 - Lady Headspace

Tue Mar 06 2018 (01:08:59)

NOTE: We are NOT trained therapists, doctors, or advice givers.  We are a couple of sexy freaks who thought it important to chat about something we ALL deal with: depression and how it comingles within the lifestyle. If you feel trapped and like...

NOTE: We are NOT trained therapists, doctors, or advice givers.  We are a couple of sexy freaks who thought it important to chat about something we ALL deal with: depression and how it comingles within the lifestyle. If you feel trapped and like you have nowhere to go and you need to speak with someone please please reach out to one of the many hotlines that can help you! In Australia: Lifeline (13 11 14) is a 24-hour nationwide service that provides access to crisis support, suicide prevention, ...

#94 - Headspace

Tue Feb 27 2018 (01:01:05)

NOTE: We are NOT trained therapists, doctors, or advice givers.  We are a couple of sexy freaks who thought it important to chat about something we ALL deal with: depression and how it comingles within the lifestyle. If you feel trapped and like...

NOTE: We are NOT trained therapists, doctors, or advice givers.  We are a couple of sexy freaks who thought it important to chat about something we ALL deal with: depression and how it comingles within the lifestyle. If you feel trapped and like you have nowhere to go and you need to speak with someone please please reach out to one of the many hotlines that can help you! In Australia: Lifeline (13 11 14) is a 24-hour nationwide service that provides access to crisis support, suicide prevention, ...

#93 - Rambling Escapades

Tue Feb 20 2018 (01:02:51)

Hello, constant listeners (and new listeners alike)! In this episode, we give you a rambling glimpse into our weekends.  We talk about all of our escapades (that we CAN talk about) from this past weekend and you learn why we need more...

Hello, constant listeners (and new listeners alike)! In this episode, we give you a rambling glimpse into our weekends.  We talk about all of our escapades (that we CAN talk about) from this past weekend and you learn why we need more sleep!!!  Listen as we discuss what is getting us excited for the future, our experience at Empire Strips Back, a Star Wars themed burlesque show, a fetish buy/swap/sell, an amazing date, and the official opening to the 40th anniversary of Sydney Mardi Gras, Fair D ...

#92 - Mistakes We Make in the Bedroom

Tue Feb 13 2018 (01:13:15)

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!! In this episode, we talk about the mistakes we ALL can make in the bedroom!  How many of these are we guilty of?  More than we might like to admit!  We go through our list and highlight the mistakes and the...

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!! In this episode, we talk about the mistakes we ALL can make in the bedroom!  How many of these are we guilty of?  More than we might like to admit!  We go through our list and highlight the mistakes and the things that we've done to overcome them.  It isn't always easy to change but it's definitely always worth the effort to build a stronger and happier relationship! So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social me ...

#91 - Since You've Been Gone

Tue Feb 06 2018 (01:05:18)

Mr. Atom is BACK baby, and boy does he have some stories to tell.   In this episode, The Atoms talk about what each of them did while Mr. Atom was traveling in and around Amsterdam. Mr. Atom tells tales of a convenient Grindr hookup, meeting...

Mr. Atom is BACK baby, and boy does he have some stories to tell.   In this episode, The Atoms talk about what each of them did while Mr. Atom was traveling in and around Amsterdam. Mr. Atom tells tales of a convenient Grindr hookup, meeting one of our listeners who lives in The Netherlands, and perusing the Red Light District on their wedding anniversary. Mrs. Atom talks about her 3 successive nights at Our Secret Spot, culminating in her taking The Gentleman to their Glow Party. Finally, we di ...

#90 - The Gentleman Walks Into a Sauna

Tue Jan 30 2018 (01:06:51)

This is another episode where Mr. Atom was traveling and Mrs. A had to call in some backup... So, Mrs. Atom called in the ever handsome Gentleman.   In this episode, The Gentleman discusses his first trip, with Mr. Atom, to a couple gay...

This is another episode where Mr. Atom was traveling and Mrs. A had to call in some backup... So, Mrs. Atom called in the ever handsome Gentleman.   In this episode, The Gentleman discusses his first trip, with Mr. Atom, to a couple gay saunas in Sydney and he leaves no stone unturned in the tale! So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or em ...

#89 - Dirty Talk

Tue Jan 23 2018 (56:35)

Have you ever wanted to set fire to your partner's loins just with your words?  Do you watch porn and say, "I could never say that to my partner!  I'd sound silly!" Well in this episode we discuss the elusive dirty talk. We hit on the...

Have you ever wanted to set fire to your partner's loins just with your words?  Do you watch porn and say, "I could never say that to my partner!  I'd sound silly!" Well in this episode we discuss the elusive dirty talk. We hit on the whys and the hows of dropping some dirty love bomb zingers.  From the phases of dirty talk to the vernacular to use, we cover it all!  Plus we have a podcast question that was just silly enough NOT to ignore... WE loved it!!! So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, en ...

#88 - Dating Challenges with Chastity

Tue Jan 16 2018 (55:07)

With Mr. Atom travelling this week, Mrs. Atom and a new voice, Chastity, sit down to discuss some of the perils of dating. As a single woman trying to get back into dating after a bit of a hiatus, Chastity highlights some of the biggest challenges...

With Mr. Atom travelling this week, Mrs. Atom and a new voice, Chastity, sit down to discuss some of the perils of dating. As a single woman trying to get back into dating after a bit of a hiatus, Chastity highlights some of the biggest challenges faced by singles and couples. Settle in for a listen and a bit of commiseration! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave so ...

#87 - Never Have I Ever

Wed Jan 10 2018 (01:43:17)

We have a very special installment lined up for this week.  We got 6 of our closet friends together to play a game of "Never Have I Ever" and we recorded the whole thing!   We coerced L0L0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp, Lawrence and Jess...

We have a very special installment lined up for this week.  We got 6 of our closet friends together to play a game of "Never Have I Ever" and we recorded the whole thing!   We coerced L0L0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp, Lawrence and Jess from Our Secret Spot, and podcasting virgins, Wazowski and BJ to sit down with us, microphones on and drinks filled, to play a game that many of us hadn't played since our university days.  The instructions were simple.  They were all to come to our place with five ...

#86 A Debaucherous Week

Tue Jan 02 2018 (01:08:36)

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!  We sincerely hope that you have a safe and wonderful new year!  In this episode, we review the week between Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve.  This ended up being an amazing week of 4 trips to Our Secret Spot, 4 days...

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!  We sincerely hope that you have a safe and wonderful new year!  In this episode, we review the week between Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve.  This ended up being an amazing week of 4 trips to Our Secret Spot, 4 days spent with "The Gentleman", 2 different gay saunas, and 1 40th birthday celebration that will go down in the record books.  So much great sex was to be had!!! Listen as we describe my Splish, Splash, Splosh Birthday party/food fight and The New Years Eve celebrati ...

#85 A Year in Review

Tue Dec 26 2017 (01:02:34)

Welcome back, constant listener.  In this episode, we talk about our year and the personal highlights that we enjoyed.  2017 has been an amazing year for By the Bi and that is because of YOU constant listener.  Listen as we go through...

Welcome back, constant listener.  In this episode, we talk about our year and the personal highlights that we enjoyed.  2017 has been an amazing year for By the Bi and that is because of YOU constant listener.  Listen as we go through the year and touch on our favorite memories, experiences, and things we are most grateful for.   We also talk about what the future holds and what we are looking forward to in 2018. Finally, we answer a question that was asked of us by one of our listeners regardin ...

#84 Pegging 101 (Part 2)

Tue Dec 19 2017 (53:02)

So if you listened last week you know that by popular demand, we've decided to do a complete 101 on Pegging.  Well here is the second part of that series. Sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social...

So if you listened last week you know that by popular demand, we've decided to do a complete 101 on Pegging.  Well here is the second part of that series. Sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start i ...

#83 Pegging 101 (Part 1)

Tue Dec 12 2017 (53:39)

By popular demand, we've decided to do a complete 101 on Pegging. We talk about the origination of the word, the history of the practice, and lots of preparation talk.  This is a practice and play that we are very passionate about.  We hope...

By popular demand, we've decided to do a complete 101 on Pegging. We talk about the origination of the word, the history of the practice, and lots of preparation talk.  This is a practice and play that we are very passionate about.  We hope it comes through. So sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedba ...

#82 Flirting 101

Tue Dec 05 2017 (58:54)

So if you're like many of us when we get into the swinging world its likely been quite a while since you've had to give (and receive) flirts.  In this episode, we give a quick primer on your body language so that you present yourself in the best...

So if you're like many of us when we get into the swinging world its likely been quite a while since you've had to give (and receive) flirts.  In this episode, we give a quick primer on your body language so that you present yourself in the best possible light.  Look you only get one chance to make a first impression so you have to make certain that when you carpe diem you're giving yourself as much of a sexy advantage as you can. We'll discuss body language, triggers, and lines... oh the lines. ...

#81 The Wet and Pendulum Tales

Tue Nov 28 2017 (01:01:14)

It's that time again!  To start this episode, we talk about Sexpo pros and cons and one of the major issues we see in Sexpo. (Last episode was all about the vendors.) Later,  Mr. Atom talks about his experience at a sauna in Melbourne called...

It's that time again!  To start this episode, we talk about Sexpo pros and cons and one of the major issues we see in Sexpo. (Last episode was all about the vendors.) Later,  Mr. Atom talks about his experience at a sauna in Melbourne called "Wet on Wellington".  He goes into deep detail to describe the layout and experience of the sauna leaving no glory holes untapped. Finally, we talk about our most recent Pendulum Party, which was (spoiler alert) a HUGE success. So sit back, enjoy, and as alw ...

#80 Sexpo Melbourne 2017 Review

Tue Nov 21 2017 (01:00:46)

Join us on a journey exploring Sexpo Melbourne 2017! We were there as part of the Sex Ed in the City team presenting with MisJif in the S.H.A.R.E. room sponsored by Red Hot Pie. We live cast portions of this episode from the show floor and talk to...

Join us on a journey exploring Sexpo Melbourne 2017! We were there as part of the Sex Ed in the City team presenting with MisJif in the S.H.A.R.E. room sponsored by Red Hot Pie. We live cast portions of this episode from the show floor and talk to some of our favorite products of this Sexpo, including After Dark Intimate Wipes, Bare Bros Co, Ju Ju Jezebel, Dominant Furniture, Mia Maxx, and Salome's Circle. There were some other interesting booths we talk about as well, such as Our Kink and Catan ...

#79 First Time Club Advice

Tue Nov 14 2017 (01:09:42)

Hello folks!  You asked and we listened.  Last week we ran a Twitter poll to determine what you wanted to hear most and advice for the first time to a swingers club won. So in this episode, we give our best advice to make sure that your...

Hello folks!  You asked and we listened.  Last week we ran a Twitter poll to determine what you wanted to hear most and advice for the first time to a swingers club won. So in this episode, we give our best advice to make sure that your experience is a positive one.  We talk about everything from choosing a night to go, to how to dress, to how to talk to people once your there.  We hope to pack your toolbox with the tools you need to have a successful and exciting experience. We also include an ...

Party season is in and during this episode, we talk about some of the parties that we have been to over the last couple of weeks.  We discuss the Red Heaven and Our Secret Spot Halloween parties!  Then we talk about a VERY Halloween...

Party season is in and during this episode, we talk about some of the parties that we have been to over the last couple of weeks.  We discuss the Red Heaven and Our Secret Spot Halloween parties!  Then we talk about a VERY Halloween appropriate experience Mr. Atom had at a Brisbane Sauna. Was it haunted? Or was Mr. Atom delirious from the sauna experience?   Then Mrs Atom talks about her solo experience to Our Secret Spot.  Where she met some of our listeners.  We end with an odd and awkward que ...

#77 Passion in Paradise Part 2

Tue Oct 31 2017 (01:37:59)

In this second of a two-part episode we continue on with our raucous review of Passion in Paradise an event hosted in Far North Queensland.  We continue the story by discussing the rest of the parties and the naughty experiences we had in the...

In this second of a two-part episode we continue on with our raucous review of Passion in Paradise an event hosted in Far North Queensland.  We continue the story by discussing the rest of the parties and the naughty experiences we had in the afternoons.  (Here's a hint; they include orgies!) We finish the episode with some messages from a few of the other patrons of Passion in Paradise and their favorite moments. So sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social me ...

In this second of a two-part episode we continue on with our raucous review of Passion in Paradise an event hosted in Far North Queensland.  We continue the story by discussing the rest of the parties and the naughty experiences we had in the...

In this second of a two-part episode we continue on with our raucous review of Passion in Paradise an event hosted in Far North Queensland.  We continue the story by discussing the rest of the parties and the naughty experiences we had in the afternoons.  (Here's a hint; they include orgies!) We finish the episode with some messages from a few of the other patrons of Passion in Paradise and their favorite moments. So sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social me ...

#76 Passion in Paradise Part 1

Tue Oct 24 2017 (01:12:29)

OOOOH BOY!!!  This is the first part of a two-part episode on our fantastic experience at Passion in Paradise. In this episode, we discuss our arrival to the resort and our immediate first impressions.  We describe the layout of the resort...

OOOOH BOY!!!  This is the first part of a two-part episode on our fantastic experience at Passion in Paradise. In this episode, we discuss our arrival to the resort and our immediate first impressions.  We describe the layout of the resort including the rooms, bar, and pool area.  Then we start with the first couple of days and start going into our experiences. So sit back and enjoy!!! As always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiP ...

#75 Pre-Passion in Paradise

Tue Oct 17 2017 (01:11:45)

Hello constant listeners (and new folks listening for the first time)! In this episode, we start by discussing WHAT JUST HAPPENED!!!!  We won't spoil it for you but we may have JUST tried something that we had tried before, weren't sure we liked...

Hello constant listeners (and new folks listening for the first time)! In this episode, we start by discussing WHAT JUST HAPPENED!!!!  We won't spoil it for you but we may have JUST tried something that we had tried before, weren't sure we liked it and decided we should try it again... right now. Then we discuss Passion in Paradise... or at least what we expect from Passion in Paradise as, if you're listening to this on the day of release, it starts TOMORROW!!!  Woohoo!  It's our first time to a ...

#74 - Conversations with The Gentleman

Tue Oct 10 2017 (54:40)

In this episode, we have a conversation with our Manticore, The Gentlemen.  The three of us talk about what it's like being a single male in the swinging community.  He talks about getting into the lifestyle, some of the things he has...

In this episode, we have a conversation with our Manticore, The Gentlemen.  The three of us talk about what it's like being a single male in the swinging community.  He talks about getting into the lifestyle, some of the things he has learned and some of the pitfalls he's experienced along the way.    As always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us ...

#73 Recent Sexcapades

Tue Oct 03 2017 (57:09)

Hello, kind people!  In this episode, we discuss the events of the past couple weeks.  Mrs. Atom was traveling in Europe and poor Mr. Atom was left home alone... well sorta.  Listen as we share our stories of playmates that we spent our...

Hello, kind people!  In this episode, we discuss the events of the past couple weeks.  Mrs. Atom was traveling in Europe and poor Mr. Atom was left home alone... well sorta.  Listen as we share our stories of playmates that we spent our time with and some of the naughty (and not so naughty) things we got up to. We also discuss just how small our community is and why you should ALWAYS be nice to people.   Lastly, in our question of the week, we were asked about sexy scenes in tv and movies and Mr ...

#72 Conversations with Our Secret Spot

Tue Sep 26 2017 (01:01:35)

Welcome back!  In this episode we, once again, sit down with the owners of Our Secret Spot to talk about... well a little bit of everything.  We start off by asking for the club's origin story and what they want from and for the club....

Welcome back!  In this episode we, once again, sit down with the owners of Our Secret Spot to talk about... well a little bit of everything.  We start off by asking for the club's origin story and what they want from and for the club.  Admittedly, by the end, we have disintegrated into laughing rambles about sex, clubs, and the lifestyle laced with a few moments of genius here and there.  As always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook Bythe ...

#71 The 7 Types of Love

Tue Sep 19 2017 (01:02:49)

Philia, Pragma, and Agape... Oh My!  In this episode, we talk about 7 types of love as described by the Greeks.  Listen as we try to work out what each one is, how we feel about it, and how it affects us.  We discuss how these loves can...

Philia, Pragma, and Agape... Oh My!  In this episode, we talk about 7 types of love as described by the Greeks.  Listen as we try to work out what each one is, how we feel about it, and how it affects us.  We discuss how these loves can help us better define our own love for each other and our play partners. If you want to read the article that we used as a source for the podcast you can find it here!   As always, thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast O ...

#70 Bisexuality in Our Everyday Life

Tue Sep 12 2017 (01:02:48)

Welcome back y'all!   In this episode, we talk about our daily lives and how (or in some cases if) our bisexuality affects it.  As one might imagine... Mr Atom rants from atop his soapbox more than once! Thank you for listening!   Find...

Welcome back y'all!   In this episode, we talk about our daily lives and how (or in some cases if) our bisexuality affects it.  As one might imagine... Mr Atom rants from atop his soapbox more than once! Thank you for listening!   Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Start iTunes – Clic ...

#69 Games We Play

Tue Sep 05 2017 (58:56)

OOOOOOOOOHH!!! Number 69... Sexy times!  And that is what we are talking about tonight!  On our Kik feed, we had a question about ice breakers and games that we play as sexy swingers. We loved the idea! Join us as we go through games you can...

OOOOOOOOOHH!!! Number 69... Sexy times!  And that is what we are talking about tonight!  On our Kik feed, we had a question about ice breakers and games that we play as sexy swingers. We loved the idea! Join us as we go through games you can play one on one, two on two, or a bunch on a bunch!  We discuss games we've played at home, at clubs, and at pub crawls.  Enjoy! Find us on social media!!! On twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do ...

#68 A Tale of Two Parties

Tue Aug 29 2017 (01:00:34)

In this episode we talk about a couple of parties that we have recently attended at Our Secret Spot.   First is the Sexy in His Shirt, a concept from our friends over at Swinging Downunder.  We'll highlight some of the icebreakers that...

In this episode we talk about a couple of parties that we have recently attended at Our Secret Spot.   First is the Sexy in His Shirt, a concept from our friends over at Swinging Downunder.  We'll highlight some of the icebreakers that we played and saw and some of the action that we had. Next is the highlights from our own Pendulum Party.  This was our third one and seriously... oh what a night!  Once again it was a HUGE success with lots of mixed-couple mixed-sex play.  The evening culminates ...

#67 Awkward Stories with Our Secret Spot

Tue Aug 22 2017 (01:01:16)

This one will for ever be known as the one where we talk about farts for half the episode. Once again we invited our dear friends Lawrence and Jess, the owners of Our Secret Spot to sit down and talk with us about some of our more awkward moments in...

This one will for ever be known as the one where we talk about farts for half the episode. Once again we invited our dear friends Lawrence and Jess, the owners of Our Secret Spot to sit down and talk with us about some of our more awkward moments in our swinging history.  Of course, we ended up with farts, gas, flatulence, toots, breaking wind, cutting cheese, blow off, bum breathing, and anal applause.   We also tried something a bit new with this episode...  We opened up a Kik chat group invit ...

#66 Sexpo Brisbane

Tue Aug 15 2017 (01:22:28)

Welcome back and we hop you found us alright as we have moved to being a LibSyn hosted podcast. In this episode, we take you on a journey to Sexpo in Brisbane Australia.  Join us as we livecast portions of the episode from the show floor....

Welcome back and we hop you found us alright as we have moved to being a LibSyn hosted podcast. In this episode, we take you on a journey to Sexpo in Brisbane Australia.  Join us as we livecast portions of the episode from the show floor.  We interview Bentleigh Gibson (the man behind Sexpo), Lucie Bee, L0l0 Lady, The Ginger Tramp, and many others! We also talk with some of our favorite products of Sexpo including After Dark Intimate Wides, Geeky Sex Toys, and Kinky Boots and Bits. Sit back and ...

#65 Would You Rather? (Part 3)

Tue Aug 08 2017 (01:08:36)

Holy smokes a trilogy!  This week we are serving y’all up with another game of “Would You Rather?”  Once again we have the podcast fan-favorites L0L0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp to play a sexy (and smurf-tastic ) game of … Continued

Holy smokes a trilogy!  This week we are serving y’all up with another game of “Would You Rather?”  Once again we have the podcast fan-favorites L0L0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp to play a sexy (and smurf-tastic ) game of … Continued

#64 The Meet & Mingle and Malebag #2

Wed Aug 02 2017 (01:07:23)

Not too long ago we were invited by a few folks from up the coast to come to a meet and mingle in Sydney.  Unfortunately, we had double booked ourselves as it was also the Lady’s Night party at Our … Continued

Not too long ago we were invited by a few folks from up the coast to come to a meet and mingle in Sydney.  Unfortunately, we had double booked ourselves as it was also the Lady’s Night party at Our … Continued

#63 – The Manticore

Tue Jul 25 2017 (59:20)

This week we talk about a new fella that’s been coming around.  We’ll talk about how we met him and then discuss two dates that we’ve had. We’ve also had an influx of questions so we took the time to … Continued

This week we talk about a new fella that’s been coming around.  We’ll talk about how we met him and then discuss two dates that we’ve had. We’ve also had an influx of questions so we took the time to … Continued

A couple of weeks ago we went to the Australian Adult Industry Awards, a wonderful night that was both sexy and a BIT odd. We had been lucky enough to be nominated for Best Adult Podcast and while we didn’t win we … Continued

A couple of weeks ago we went to the Australian Adult Industry Awards, a wonderful night that was both sexy and a BIT odd. We had been lucky enough to be nominated for Best Adult Podcast and while we didn’t win we … Continued

#61 – Would You Rather? (Part 2)

Tue Jul 11 2017 (56:15)

Apologies for missing last week’s episode.  We were both traveling and were unable to get a podcast recorded! Hopefully, we make up for it this week with another game of “Would You Rather?”  We are joined by the podcast fan-favorites &

Apologies for missing last week’s episode.  We were both traveling and were unable to get a podcast recorded! Hopefully, we make up for it this week with another game of “Would You Rather?”  We are joined by the podcast fan-favorites … Continued

Well, it finally happened again!!! The second party that we have been planning and talking about for months was a while ago now at Our Secret Spot. It was, in a word, amazeballs.  Join us as we give you some … Continued

Well, it finally happened again!!! The second party that we have been planning and talking about for months was a while ago now at Our Secret Spot. It was, in a word, amazeballs.  Join us as we give you some … Continued

#59 Twelve Couples Walk into a Bar…

Tue Jun 20 2017 (01:02:17)

In this episode, we discuss a big group date we were invited on.  We got the invite to meet about a dozen other couples at a local pub.  While at the pub, Mr. Atombroke away from the group to try … Continued

In this episode, we discuss a big group date we were invited on.  We got the invite to meet about a dozen other couples at a local pub.  While at the pub, Mr. Atombroke away from the group to try … Continued

#58 MysteryVibe Crescendo Review

Tue Jun 13 2017 (43:57)

The lovely folks at MysteryVibe reached out to us a bit over a month ago and asked us if we’d like to have a play with their newest  (award winning) toy The Crescendo.  We, of course, said, “Absolutely we would!”  After … Conti

The lovely folks at MysteryVibe reached out to us a bit over a month ago and asked us if we’d like to have a play with their newest  (award winning) toy The Crescendo.  We, of course, said, “Absolutely we would!”  After … Continued

#57 Body Image Issues – Part 2

Tue Jun 06 2017 (01:02:38)

Howdy folks!  In this episode, we conclude our chat with the beautiful L0L0 Lady and, in his first-time debut on our show, Blue Steel… We are still trying to talk about body image issues, though we … C

Howdy folks!  In this episode, we conclude our chat with the beautiful L0L0 Lady and, in his first-time debut on our show, Blue Steel… We are still trying to talk about body image issues, though we … Continued

#56 Body Image Issues – Part 1

Wed May 31 2017 (01:06:47)

Howdy folks!  In this episode, we are joined once again by the beautiful L0L0 Lady and, for his first-time debut on our show, Blue Steel… And we are here to talk about body image issues.  This was recorded … Conti

Howdy folks!  In this episode, we are joined once again by the beautiful L0L0 Lady and, for his first-time debut on our show, Blue Steel… And we are here to talk about body image issues.  This was recorded … Continued

#55 Our Latest Sexcapades – Volume 1

Wed May 24 2017 (01:02:55)

In this latest episode we talk about Mr Atom’s recent trip to Melbourne where he had a less than fun time at the local gay sauna (sad face).  We also talk about a new couple that we are already giving … Continued

In this latest episode we talk about Mr Atom’s recent trip to Melbourne where he had a less than fun time at the local gay sauna (sad face).  We also talk about a new couple that we are already giving … Continued

#54 An Interview with Cooper S Beckett

Tue May 16 2017 (01:39:45)

In our community Cooper S Beckett is very well known.  He’s popular author (this is his third book), podcaster (he’s been podcasting for 7 years), and life coach, so as you may imagine, he’s an extremely busy guy.  When he said he &#

In our community Cooper S Beckett is very well known.  He’s popular author (this is his third book), podcaster (he’s been podcasting for 7 years), and life coach, so as you may imagine, he’s an extremely busy guy.  When he said he … Continued

#53 The Pleasure Lounge Review

Tue May 09 2017 (46:17)

In this episode we talk about a recent trip to Perth.  On that trip we visited The Pleasure Lounge, one of the local swingers clubs.  We describe the club and the experience we had there.  (Admittedly, one of the best … Continued

In this episode we talk about a recent trip to Perth.  On that trip we visited The Pleasure Lounge, one of the local swingers clubs.  We describe the club and the experience we had there.  (Admittedly, one of the best … Continued

#52 Clone-a-Willy

Tue May 02 2017 (43:04)

In this episode we take our listeners along for a ride as we try “cloning” Mr Atom’s cock using the Clone-a-Willy kit we got on our last trip to the states.  Clone-a-willy is a penis casting and moulding kit by … Continued

In this episode we take our listeners along for a ride as we try “cloning” Mr Atom’s cock using the Clone-a-Willy kit we got on our last trip to the states.  Clone-a-willy is a penis casting and moulding kit by … Continued

#51 Mike’s Place Review

Tue Apr 25 2017 (01:06:40)

While recently up in Brisbane, we were lucky enough to hit up Mike’s Place, The Best Darn Swingers Club in Brisvegas, with the beautiful L0l0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp.  It ended up being a wonderful evening at a pretty … Continued

While recently up in Brisbane, we were lucky enough to hit up Mike’s Place, The Best Darn Swingers Club in Brisvegas, with the beautiful L0l0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp.  It ended up being a wonderful evening at a pretty … Continued

#50 Jealousy Revisited

Tue Apr 18 2017 (01:03:16)

Can you believe it?!? We’ve made it to 50 episodes!!!!  And you’re still here listening to us! In this very special episode, we invited back two dear friends who were featured more than a year a go in our sixth … Continued

Can you believe it?!? We’ve made it to 50 episodes!!!!  And you’re still here listening to us! In this very special episode, we invited back two dear friends who were featured more than a year a go in our sixth … Continued

#49 Hack Live Review

Tue Apr 11 2017 (55:26)

Remember that time we were on the television show “Hack Live”?  No?  Well not too long ago we were asked to appear on an episode of “Hack Live” on ABC2 filmed at Our Secret Spot here in Sydney.  As we … Continued

Remember that time we were on the television show “Hack Live”?  No?  Well not too long ago we were asked to appear on an episode of “Hack Live” on ABC2 filmed at Our Secret Spot here in Sydney.  As we … Continued

#48 Sex Furniture

Tue Apr 04 2017 (55:37)

Recently, while at Our Secret Spot, a couple asked us our opinion on sex furniture and if we had any pieces of our own.  The conversation got so interesting we thought it would be fun to do a full episode … Continued

Recently, while at Our Secret Spot, a couple asked us our opinion on sex furniture and if we had any pieces of our own.  The conversation got so interesting we thought it would be fun to do a full episode … Continued

#47 The Big Birthday Weekend

Wed Mar 29 2017 (55:17)

Heya gang!  This episode is all about Birthdays!  We spent last Friday night at the 24th Birthday of Hell Fire Sydney and then Saturday night was the 3rd Birthday party for Our Secret Spot. Lots and lots and lots of … Continued

Heya gang!  This episode is all about Birthdays!  We spent last Friday night at the 24th Birthday of Hell Fire Sydney and then Saturday night was the 3rd Birthday party for Our Secret Spot. Lots and lots and lots of … Continued

#46 Introducing MisJif

Tue Mar 21 2017 (01:16:00)

In this week’s episode we introduce our friend and new business partner MisJif. She’s a sex educator, therapist, presenter, and aficionado who has an abundance of experience teaching adult education around the world.  In Canada she planned a

In this week’s episode we introduce our friend and new business partner MisJif. She’s a sex educator, therapist, presenter, and aficionado who has an abundance of experience teaching adult education around the world.  In Canada she planned a number of charity … Continued

#45 Sex-Ed in the City (and other news)

Tue Mar 14 2017 (56:33)

Big announcement time!  For a while we have been discussing some of the classes in which we have been participating. Well now we are ready to tell everyone about “Sex Ed in the City” a business we have started with … Continued

Big announcement time!  For a while we have been discussing some of the classes in which we have been participating. Well now we are ready to tell everyone about “Sex Ed in the City” a business we have started with … Continued

#44 Interview with Our Secret Spot

Tue Mar 07 2017 (01:20:01)

This week we talk to The Law and Babydoll, owners of Our Secret Spot, a swingers club here in Sydney.  We cover a vast range of topics from the development of the club’s vibe and feel to advice for first time … Continued

This week we talk to The Law and Babydoll, owners of Our Secret Spot, a swingers club here in Sydney.  We cover a vast range of topics from the development of the club’s vibe and feel to advice for first time … Continued

#43 Managing Children in the Lifestyle

Wed Mar 01 2017 (59:41)

In this episode, we are joined by a couple of our play friends to discuss how they manage an active swinger lifestyle while still keeping their parents’ hats firmly in place.  This has been one of our most highly requested topics. … Continue

In this episode, we are joined by a couple of our play friends to discuss how they manage an active swinger lifestyle while still keeping their parents’ hats firmly in place.  This has been one of our most highly requested topics. … Continued

#42 The Pendulum Party!

Tue Feb 21 2017 (01:01:56)

Well it finally happened!  The party that we have been planning and talking about for months was this past Friday night at Our Secret Spot.  In a word, it was amazeballs. Join us on a trip down own memory lane … Continued

Well it finally happened!  The party that we have been planning and talking about for months was this past Friday night at Our Secret Spot.  In a word, it was amazeballs. Join us on a trip down own memory lane … Continued

#41 Sexiness in NYC

Tue Feb 14 2017 (01:28:23)

In this episode, we talk about our sexy adventures over four days in New York City. We definitely learned why it’s the city that never sleeps. First up is our day of shopping. We may have gone a bit overboard … Continued

In this episode, we talk about our sexy adventures over four days in New York City. We definitely learned why it’s the city that never sleeps. First up is our day of shopping. We may have gone a bit overboard … Continued

#40 – Well THAT was Awkward.

Tue Feb 07 2017 (56:57)

If you’ve been in the lifestyle for more than a little bit this podcast is not going to come as much of a surprise to you.  In this episode we talk about a couple of recent encounters we’ve had where at … Continued

If you’ve been in the lifestyle for more than a little bit this podcast is not going to come as much of a surprise to you.  In this episode we talk about a couple of recent encounters we’ve had where at … Continued

#39 Would You Rather?

Tue Jan 31 2017 (54:52)

In this episode we play a sexy game of “Would You Rather?”  If you’ve never played this game before, the idea is that you’re asked a question like, “Would you rather be a virgin until you are 40 and subsequently have &#8230

In this episode we play a sexy game of “Would You Rather?”  If you’ve never played this game before, the idea is that you’re asked a question like, “Would you rather be a virgin until you are 40 and subsequently have … Continued

#38 Swinging 102 – Profile Profiling

Wed Jan 25 2017 (01:09:36)

In this episode we delve into profiles on dating sites.  From swinger sites to Grindr, we discuss what we look for; and what is needed for us to send a message.  Wondering what guarantees our interest?  Curious as to what will … Continued

In this episode we delve into profiles on dating sites.  From swinger sites to Grindr, we discuss what we look for; and what is needed for us to send a message.  Wondering what guarantees our interest?  Curious as to what will … Continued

#37 Aussie Slang

Wed Jan 18 2017 (01:01:53)

What do you get when you add two Americans, two Australians, 3 bottles of wine, and a whole lot of sexy slang?  You’re about to find out because in this episode we get Danny and Sandy to help us suss … Continued

What do you get when you add two Americans, two Australians, 3 bottles of wine, and a whole lot of sexy slang?  You’re about to find out because in this episode we get Danny and Sandy to help us suss … Continued

#36 Happy New Year!

Wed Jan 11 2017 (01:09:51)

In this episode, we talk about our latest SexEd class that was held on the Eve of New Year’s Eve.  It was a big one.  Intro to kink and BDSM with two live demos and a kink fashion show! Next … Continued

In this episode, we talk about our latest SexEd class that was held on the Eve of New Year’s Eve.  It was a big one.  Intro to kink and BDSM with two live demos and a kink fashion show! Next … Continued

We get so many questions on swinging and life in “the lifestyle” that we’ve decided to start our own series called Swinging 101.  In this first installment in a multipart series, we discuss the decision to open up your relationship &#82

We get so many questions on swinging and life in “the lifestyle” that we’ve decided to start our own series called Swinging 101.  In this first installment in a multipart series, we discuss the decision to open up your relationship … Continued

#34 The Interview

Tue Dec 27 2016 (54:26)

In this episode of the podcast, we talk about a recent red heaven event that we went to called “Christmas in Wonderland”.  A fantastic holiday party where we got ALL dressed up and partied until late in the evening/morning. Then … Conti

In this episode of the podcast, we talk about a recent red heaven event that we went to called “Christmas in Wonderland”.  A fantastic holiday party where we got ALL dressed up and partied until late in the evening/morning. Then … Continued

#33 Anal 101

Mon Dec 19 2016 (01:06:54)

In this episode we talk anal!  Butt stuff like this is often overlooked and is extremely important.  Once again we were part of the Sex Ed session at Our Secret Spot–and what an honor it was!  In this session, Mis … Continued

In this episode we talk anal!  Butt stuff like this is often overlooked and is extremely important.  Once again we were part of the Sex Ed session at Our Secret Spot–and what an honor it was!  In this session, Mis … Continued

#32 Breaking Rules

Tue Dec 13 2016 (57:30)

Come listen in as we discuss our hard and soft rules and what happens when one of us breaks them. This podcast is a bit different in that one of us broke a couple of our rules but we hadn’t … Continued

Come listen in as we discuss our hard and soft rules and what happens when one of us breaks them. This podcast is a bit different in that one of us broke a couple of our rules but we hadn’t … Continued

#31 We’re Coming Out

Mon Dec 05 2016 (01:04:50)

In this special episode, we both come out of the closet.  For almost a year we’ve been doing these podcasts talking about how we are open and honest and unashamed for being bisexual and swingers.  Despite this talk, we have never … Continue

In this special episode, we both come out of the closet.  For almost a year we’ve been doing these podcasts talking about how we are open and honest and unashamed for being bisexual and swingers.  Despite this talk, we have never … Continued

#30 Toys, toys, toys… Part 2

Tue Nov 29 2016 (01:15:42)

Can it be episode 30 already!?!  In this episode we talk about a whole heap of new toys that we’ve gotten over the last few months.  Sit back and enjoy as we discus toys for him and her.  Everything from … Continued

Can it be episode 30 already!?!  In this episode we talk about a whole heap of new toys that we’ve gotten over the last few months.  Sit back and enjoy as we discus toys for him and her.  Everything from … Continued

#29 What’s been going on?

Tue Nov 22 2016 (01:01:20)

In this episode we do a quick catch up to some of the things going on with us and what we’ve been up to.  We discuss Mr Atom’s trip to NZ where he checks out the local sauna and has … Continued

In this episode we do a quick catch up to some of the things going on with us and what we’ve been up to.  We discuss Mr Atom’s trip to NZ where he checks out the local sauna and has … Continued

#28 Love Languages

Tue Nov 15 2016 (01:08:55)

Howdy folks!  You’ve heard us talk about communication and the importance of communication with our partners (both inside of and outside of our primary relationships).  This episode we talk a bit about loooooooove and how the two of us discuss, &#

Howdy folks!  You’ve heard us talk about communication and the importance of communication with our partners (both inside of and outside of our primary relationships).  This episode we talk a bit about loooooooove and how the two of us discuss, … Continued

#27 Sex Ed – G-Spot and Clitoral Massage

Tue Nov 08 2016 (01:07:13)

In this episode we go back to Our Secret Spot for another Sex Ed class with MisJif.  This time its the lady’s turn and we focus on clitoral and g-spot massaging.  The Atoms were lucky enough to be approached to … Continued

In this episode we go back to Our Secret Spot for another Sex Ed class with MisJif.  This time its the lady’s turn and we focus on clitoral and g-spot massaging.  The Atoms were lucky enough to be approached to … Continued

#26 Mr. Atom’s Night Out

Tue Nov 01 2016 (01:02:08)

In this episode we talk about Mr.Atom’s adventures with his beau.  We talk about his going to a big gay dance party and the first overnight with the new fella. In our question of the week we discuss whether or … Continued

In this episode we talk about Mr.Atom’s adventures with his beau.  We talk about his going to a big gay dance party and the first overnight with the new fella. In our question of the week we discuss whether or … Continued

#25 SexEd – After Party at OSS

Tue Oct 25 2016 (58:14)

Hello folks! In this episode we talk about our experiences AFTER the SexEd class at Our Secret Spot.  After being properly primed by the SexEd class on giving good head, we were both really excited to wander about the club. … Continued

Hello folks! In this episode we talk about our experiences AFTER the SexEd class at Our Secret Spot.  After being properly primed by the SexEd class on giving good head, we were both really excited to wander about the club. … Continued

#24 Sex Ed – Giving Good Head

Tue Oct 18 2016 (50:57)

Hiya Folks!  Sex Education.  If you’re like us, when it comes to sex, you probably think you know all you need to know.  If you’re like us… you have A LOT to learn. In this episode we recap the recent … Continued

Hiya Folks!  Sex Education.  If you’re like us, when it comes to sex, you probably think you know all you need to know.  If you’re like us… you have A LOT to learn. In this episode we recap the recent … Continued

#23 Hellfire

Mon Oct 10 2016 (01:00:44)

Welcome to Hellfire friends and neighbors!  In this podcast we tell of our adventures to a local BDSM nightclub party here in Sydney called “The Hellfire Club” at Midnight Shift.  We talk about our clothing choices, the club experience, and

Welcome to Hellfire friends and neighbors!  In this podcast we tell of our adventures to a local BDSM nightclub party here in Sydney called “The Hellfire Club” at Midnight Shift.  We talk about our clothing choices, the club experience, and the … Continued

#22 STIs

Wed Oct 05 2016 (01:05:15)

Hello folks and welcome back!  In this episode we talk about STIs.  There is A LOT of misinformation out there and we are looking to dispel some of the myths and make getting yourself tested less scary. We still remember … Continued

Hello folks and welcome back!  In this episode we talk about STIs.  There is A LOT of misinformation out there and we are looking to dispel some of the myths and make getting yourself tested less scary. We still remember … Continued

#21 Glow Party

Tue Sep 27 2016 (01:04:23)

In this episode we go to our first Glow Party after being invited by Mr Atom’s special fella.  We talk about what a glow party is exactly, what our choices of costumes were and then we take you on the journey with … Continued

In this episode we go to our first Glow Party after being invited by Mr Atom’s special fella.  We talk about what a glow party is exactly, what our choices of costumes were and then we take you on the journey with … Continued

#20 Couple’s Club

Tue Sep 20 2016 (01:08:24)

Hello and welcome back!  In this episode we discuss and review our recent trip to “Newbie Night” at The Couples Club.   Swing in Style A few weeks ago we got a wild hair and decided we wanted to visit … Continued

Hello and welcome back!  In this episode we discuss and review our recent trip to “Newbie Night” at The Couples Club.   Swing in Style A few weeks ago we got a wild hair and decided we wanted to visit … Continued

What does a relationship really look like to a twenty something? Welcome back to a SUPER long episode of our on going podcast.  We discussed splitting this one into two episodes and then decide we couldn’t be bothered!!! So here … Continued

What does a relationship really look like to a twenty something? Welcome back to a SUPER long episode of our on going podcast.  We discussed splitting this one into two episodes and then decide we couldn’t be bothered!!! So here … Continued

#18 Mistakes We Make

Tue Sep 06 2016 (01:07:44)

Hello folks and welcome to our 18th installment.  WOW, we never expected to make it this far! In this episode we go through an article by Lelo titled “Mistakes We Make”  We discuss how we have experienced these issues first hand … Con

Hello folks and welcome to our 18th installment.  WOW, we never expected to make it this far! In this episode we go through an article by Lelo titled “Mistakes We Make”  We discuss how we have experienced these issues first hand … Continued

#17 Ladies’ Night

Tue Aug 30 2016 (01:16:33)

Oh yes it’s Ladies’ night and you can come with us as we describe our experience at Our Secret Spot’s recent “Ladies’ Night” theme party.  Come along with us as we talk about how the night went from her point … C

Oh yes it’s Ladies’ night and you can come with us as we describe our experience at Our Secret Spot’s recent “Ladies’ Night” theme party.  Come along with us as we talk about how the night went from her point … Continued

#16 Kinktopia (Volume 3 – Guess the Kink)

Tue Aug 23 2016 (01:06:46)

Welcome back to the third and final installment of our Kink Triolgy. Hopefully we will be a lot more like Return of the King and less like Jaws 3D. This time around we play What’s That Kink? and Mrs Atom asks … Continued

Welcome back to the third and final installment of our Kink Triolgy. Hopefully we will be a lot more like Return of the King and less like Jaws 3D. This time around we play What’s That Kink? and Mrs Atom asks … Continued

#15 Kinktopia (Volume 2 – Top 10 Kinks)

Tue Aug 16 2016 (01:11:38)

Welcome back to our Kinky Kinktopia!  We proudly present you with In this episode, we go through the top 10 most common kinks we humans have, and we discuss our thoughts, opinions, and experiences with each.  Ever wanted to know … Continued

Welcome back to our Kinky Kinktopia!  We proudly present you with In this episode, we go through the top 10 most common kinks we humans have, and we discuss our thoughts, opinions, and experiences with each.  Ever wanted to know … Continued

#14 Kinktopia (Volume 1 – Tryst)

Tue Aug 09 2016 (01:11:09)

Welcome to Kinky Kinktopia (Trademark pending so leave off!) Volume 1.  YES!  That’s right, this is the first volume of 3 in total! In this episode, we discuss a recent adventure to Tryst and the Munch prior to.  Before attending … Continue

Welcome to Kinky Kinktopia (Trademark pending so leave off!) Volume 1.  YES!  That’s right, this is the first volume of 3 in total! In this episode, we discuss a recent adventure to Tryst and the Munch prior to.  Before attending … Continued

Hello folks and welcome to the episode that deals with something kinda hard for only children like me: sharing!  This episode we start with a recent date we had with a new single straight guy.  Will Mrs. Atom pounce on … Continued

Hello folks and welcome to the episode that deals with something kinda hard for only children like me: sharing!  This episode we start with a recent date we had with a new single straight guy.  Will Mrs. Atom pounce on … Continued

#12 So… How do I have a threesome?

Tue Jul 26 2016 (01:16:28)

Hello folks!  In this episode, we go through a series of questions that were asked to us by a fella who has never had a threesome.  He asked some fantastic questions.  So good in fact, that we decided to take … Continued

Hello folks!  In this episode, we go through a series of questions that were asked to us by a fella who has never had a threesome.  He asked some fantastic questions.  So good in fact, that we decided to take … Continued

#11 Bisexual Experiences

Thu Jul 07 2016 (59:50)

Hello friends!  Join us once again as Mr. and Mrs. Atom discuss their first time experiences with the same sex.  We both go back and recall tales from our early 20’s.  Then we discuss some of our favorite bisexual experiences  … Continued

Hello friends!  Join us once again as Mr. and Mrs. Atom discuss their first time experiences with the same sex.  We both go back and recall tales from our early 20’s.  Then we discuss some of our favorite bisexual experiences  … Continued

#10 Toys toys toys (and shame)

Sat Jun 25 2016 (01:04:01)

Hello faithful (and maybe new) listeners!  This episode is our first in the double digits – number 1 0!  In our 10th episode we talk about a recent adult slumber party we had at our new place where a fantastic new … Continued

Hello faithful (and maybe new) listeners!This episode is our first in the double digits– number 1 0!In our 10th episode we talk about a recent adult slumber party we had at our new place where a fantastic new … Continued

#9 SEXPO

Tue Jun 07 2016 (01:05:33)

Hello folks!  Us again… Massive apologies for the long gap in episodes but we have been busy busy beavers!  In this episode we talk about Sydney’s Health Sexuality and Lifestyle Expo.  We’ll walk you through our experience of it and &

Hello folks!Us again… Massive apologies for the long gap in episodes but we have been busy busy beavers!In this episode we talk about Sydney’s Health Sexuality and Lifestyle Expo.We’ll walk you through our experience of it and … Continued

#8 The Swinging Downunder Crossover!

Fri Apr 29 2016 (39:21)

Hello folks!  It happens to all great TV show spinoffs and WE are a spinoff from Swinging Downunder so it was BOUND to happen. Catch up with us as we CONTINUE our conversation with the two lovely hosts of Swinging … Continued

Hello folks!It happens to all great TV show spinoffs and WE are a spinoff from Swinging Downunder so it was BOUND to happen. Catch up with us as we CONTINUE our conversation with the two lovely hosts of Swinging … Continued

#7 Out of the Malebag #1

Thu Mar 10 2016 (01:11:02)

Hey y’all!  We’re back again with some questions we’ve been emailed from a very special listener from The States. First up, though, we have a lot to talk about from the last couple weeks!  Listen to our recent experiences with our &#8

Hey y’all!We’re back again with some questions we’ve been emailed from a very special listener from The States. First up, though, we have a lot to talk about from the last couple weeks!Listen to our recent experiences withour … Continued

#6 The Green Eyed Monster!

Wed Mar 02 2016 (01:24:47)

Hey y’all!  It has been a long long long time since our last episode, and we apologize!  First of all let us apologize for the audio quality of this one; whilst its not terrible, we know its not the best. … Continued

Hey y’all!  It has been a long long long time since our last episode, and we apologize!  First of all let us apologize for the audio quality of this one; whilst its not terrible, we know its not the best. … Continued

#5 The Numbers Episode

Thu Feb 04 2016 (01:00:33)

In this episode we talk numbers!  First, join us as we rant about manticores and their unreliability, and then we delve into some sexual math by discussing our numbers.  Among other things we discuss the number of partners that we … Continued

In this episode we talk numbers!First, join us as we rant about manticores and their unreliability, and then we delve into some sexual math by discussing our numbers.Among other things we discuss the number of partners that we … Continued

#4 Mr. Atom’s big adventure

Sun Jan 24 2016 (01:04:58)

In this episode we discuss what’s been going on for us over the last couple weeks.  Unfortunately we haven’t been nearly as busy as we’d hoped!  Mrs. Atom gets to quiz Mr. Atom on his back to back adventures in … Continued

In this episode we discuss what’s been going on for us over the last couple weeks.Unfortunately we haven’t been nearly as busy as we’d hoped!Mrs. Atom gets to quiz Mr. Atom on his back to back adventures in … Continued

#3 Pegging

Sun Jan 10 2016 (46:44)

In this episode we discuss whats been going on over the last couple weeks.  And we have been busy!  We discuss our hunt for a “manticore”.  Also up in this episode is pegging.  We discuss what we like, how we … Continued

In this episode we discuss whats been going on over the last couple weeks.And we have been busy!We discuss our hunt for a “manticore”.Also up in this episode is pegging.We discuss what we like, how we … Continued

#2 New Year’s Eve

Mon Jan 04 2016 (57:14)

Hello again and welcome back!  In this episode we explore our New Year’s Eve festivities at a penthouse party in downtown Sydney and then on to Our Secret Spot for a first time look at a swingers club in Sydney.   … Continued

Hello again and welcome back!In this episode we explore our New Year’s Eve festivities at a penthouse party in downtown Sydney and then on to Our Secret Spot for a first time look at aswingers club in Sydney.… Continued

#1 Hi there, nice to meet you.

Tue Dec 29 2015 (16:59)

Hello all!  Welcome to our opening podcast.  The big episode one!  Don’t get too worried as this is a short one.  Just us introducing ourselves and giving you a quick idea as to what we are and what we hope to … Continued

Hello all!Welcome toour opening podcast.The big episode one!Don’t get too worried as this is a short one.Just us introducing ourselves and giving you a quick idea as to what we are and what we hope to … Continued