How To Stop Walking on Eggshells - Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
Any chance that you're getting your exercise by walking on eggshells?
That's a tense, anxiety-ridden, stressful way to get your exercise. Exercise is supposed to make you feel better. Walking on eggshells certainly won't!
Whether the #Hijackal you're with is of the narcissistic, sociopathic, passive-aggressive, histrionic, or borderline variety, keeping you on edge is their specialty. When you are on edge, they feel powerful, right? That means they are scooping up your power, and it's time to stop letting them.
But, how? In today's episode, I give you four BIG ways that you must stop Hijackals from taking your power. Yes, they are four "big buckets," HUGE BUCKETS, and I realize that. They are not quick or easy, but I wanted to put them into your thoughts today. I'll elaborate on each of them in further episodes, I promise.
Toxic people need control! It's what feeds them, and keeps them going. You know that's true, because when they don't get it, they explode! If they are overt, they go off like a roman candle. If they are covert, they are masters of The Silent Treatment. You know these!
Time for it to stop. They won't stop, so stopping is up to you!
I know, it's unfair. But, it's your life, and you have to take it back.
HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:
- How to recognize the toxic behaviors of toxic people
- What you might be telling yourself that prevents you from putting a stop to toxic behaviors
- 4 BIG undertakings for you to stop walking on eggshells
- Why you need to do this now: P.S. You cannot stop any younger!
I hope this help you see that more clearly. If you need help with this, I'm here for you.
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I hope this empowers you to make positive changes NOW.
Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,
The Relationship Help Doctor
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