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2019-5-1

What's Up With Emotionally Unavailable People? GUEST: Dr. Marni Feuerman

Ep. 78

A comment complaint I hear in my practice--especially, of course, from people who have #Hijackal parents, partners, or exes, is that S/HE IS NOT EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE!


I belong to many groups on Facebook, and this is a common complaint there, too.


"I'm attentive, collaborative, loving, nurture, and even compliant, and my partner just doesn't give anything back!"


Early on in a relationship that seems to be going somewhere good, you're affected by limerence. Dr. Marni talks about this in today's episode, that warm feeling when you're falling love, in lust, or infatuation. She says it's like being on cocaine. (I'm sure she's guessing about that, right? lol)


So, if you're ready to hear the truth about how you may have found yourself with an emotionally unavailable partner, you'll be fascinated by today's topic.


Oh, dear! Are you responding by becoming emotionally unavailable yourself? We talk about why you don't want to fall into that trap....and, why it doesn't work, either!


>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Many free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!


GUEST: DR. MARNI FEUERMAN


Marni Feuerman, MSW, PsyD, is a licensed psychotherapist, author, speaker and workshop presenter. As a nationally recognized relationship expert, she is a sought-after media contributor and syndicated freelance writer with content on numerous online media outlets including HuffoPo, Time, Marth Stewart Weddings, MSN and more. 


Dr. Marni's debut self-help book is titled, Ghosted and Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy Relationships (published by New World Library). She wrote this book for women who struggle with repetitive and unhealthy relationship patterns with men. 


Dr. Marni lives in the South Florida area with her husband and twin daughters. She maintains a private practice where she works extensively with distressed couples and individuals with relationship struggles. In her spare time, she enjoys playing with her rescue dogs, cooking, yoga, and traveling.  


FREE GIFT FROM DR. MARNI:

Watch her webinar, Why You Keep Repeating Unhealthy Relationship Patterns" and get her bonus checklist, "Is He Emotionally Available," when you SUBSCRIBE.


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • How to tell if someone is emotionally available...although, I'm pretty sure you know, right?
  • Is it actually increasing? Are more people emotionally unavailable now?
  • How we define 'emotional unavailability".
  • The impact of having emotionally unavailable parents
  • Tips for dealing with an emotionally unavailable partner
  • How limerence affects our judgment in choosing a partner
  • and...why some women choose to stay in secret relationships with married men!



CONTACT INFO FOR DR. MARNI FEUERMAN

Website:: TheTalkingSolution.com

Podcasts:

LinkedIn: @MarniFeuerman

Facebook: @DrMarniFeuerman

Instagram: 

Twitter: @DrMarniFeuerman

YouTube: 


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

Pinterest: Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler


WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE 

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!


Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®


If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.


#emotionallyunavailable #emotionalneeds #drmarnifeuerman #emotionallyimmature

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse

2019-5-1

What's Up With Emotionally Unavailable People? GUEST: Dr. Marni Feuerman

Ep. 78

A comment complaint I hear in my practice--especially, of course, from people who have #Hijackal parents, partners, or exes, is that S/HE IS NOT EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE!


I belong to many groups on Facebook, and this is a common complaint there, too.


"I'm attentive, collaborative, loving, nurture, and even compliant, and my partner just doesn't give anything back!"


Early on in a relationship that seems to be going somewhere good, you're affected by limerence. Dr. Marni talks about this in today's episode, that warm feeling when you're falling love, in lust, or infatuation. She says it's like being on cocaine. (I'm sure she's guessing about that, right? lol)


So, if you're ready to hear the truth about how you may have found yourself with an emotionally unavailable partner, you'll be fascinated by today's topic.


Oh, dear! Are you responding by becoming emotionally unavailable yourself? We talk about why you don't want to fall into that trap....and, why it doesn't work, either!


>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Many free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!


GUEST: DR. MARNI FEUERMAN


Marni Feuerman, MSW, PsyD, is a licensed psychotherapist, author, speaker and workshop presenter. As a nationally recognized relationship expert, she is a sought-after media contributor and syndicated freelance writer with content on numerous online media outlets including HuffoPo, Time, Marth Stewart Weddings, MSN and more. 


Dr. Marni's debut self-help book is titled, Ghosted and Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy Relationships (published by New World Library). She wrote this book for women who struggle with repetitive and unhealthy relationship patterns with men. 


Dr. Marni lives in the South Florida area with her husband and twin daughters. She maintains a private practice where she works extensively with distressed couples and individuals with relationship struggles. In her spare time, she enjoys playing with her rescue dogs, cooking, yoga, and traveling.  


FREE GIFT FROM DR. MARNI:

Watch her webinar, Why You Keep Repeating Unhealthy Relationship Patterns" and get her bonus checklist, "Is He Emotionally Available," when you SUBSCRIBE.


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • How to tell if someone is emotionally available...although, I'm pretty sure you know, right?
  • Is it actually increasing? Are more people emotionally unavailable now?
  • How we define 'emotional unavailability".
  • The impact of having emotionally unavailable parents
  • Tips for dealing with an emotionally unavailable partner
  • How limerence affects our judgment in choosing a partner
  • and...why some women choose to stay in secret relationships with married men!



CONTACT INFO FOR DR. MARNI FEUERMAN

Website:: TheTalkingSolution.com

Podcasts:

LinkedIn: @MarniFeuerman

Facebook: @DrMarniFeuerman

Instagram: 

Twitter: @DrMarniFeuerman

YouTube: 


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

Pinterest: Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler


WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE 

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!


Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®


If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.


#emotionallyunavailable #emotionalneeds #drmarnifeuerman #emotionallyimmature

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse

2019-4-10

Why You Won't Find the Intimacy You Long for If You're Needy GUEST: Rabbi Manis Friedman

Ep. 77

What allows for growth of intimacy? You want an emotionally rich, intimate relationship. You'll never find it--in any healthy fashion--if you're needy. That's why you need to do your own work first!


You know I talk about "doing your own work" first frequently. It's because you need to be the healthiest you can be to attract--and sustain--a healthy, emotionally intimate relationship. You simply cannot do it if you are needy! (If you want to work on this, I can help.)


Today, I'm talking once again with Rabbi Manis Friedman. He brought such great information to you in an episode with him a few months ago, and I could hardly wait to talk with him again to bring you more good stuff!


You have real needs, and one of those is for love. That's the way it is with this being human business!


But, it's the "not needy" part of you that can attract a healthy, emotionally available partner!


Why does Rabbi Mannis Friedman talk so much about humility? What does it mean? What does humility in a relationship look like? It is an important ingredient in an emotionally intimate relationship. He'll tell you why today.


Do you believe--and understand--what Rabbi Friedman says?


"I'll never fix myself at your expense."


You'll want to understand that fully, and he explains it well today.


>>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Many free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!


GUEST: RABBI MANIS FRIEDMAN, author of The Joy of Intimacy, and celebrated host of the cable television series, Torah Forum with Manis Friedman, syndicated throughout North America


World-renowned author, counselor, lecturer, and philosopher, Rabbi Manis Friedman uses ancient wisdom and modern wit as he captivates audiences around the country and the world. Over 150,000 copies of his provocative yet entertaining tapes, both audio and video, have been sold.


His first book, Doesn't Anyone Blush Anymore? was widely praised by the media and is now in its fourth printing. He has been featured internationally and has appeared on more than 50 television and radio talk shows.


Rabbi Friedman has helped thousands with his deep understanding of the human spirit and simplified common sense tips for our daily lives. A father of 14, and a great-grandfather, Rabbi Friedman spends his time traveling the world, lecturing on the topic of relationships. He says,


"Intimacy is an art."


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • The difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy relationship
  • What is real emotional growth
  • Why you are wise to work at releasing the needy part of you
  • The big difference between "being needy" and "needing to share" my life with another
  • Why it's important to do no harm
  • Why the focus has to be on making your partner's life better
  • Rabbi Friedman's three steps that shift businesses into growth



CONTACT INFO FOR RABBI MANIS FRIEDMAN

Website:: TheJoyofIntimacy.com

Podcasts:

LinkedIn: @Manis-Friedman

Facebook: @Manis-Friedman

Instagram: 

Twitter: @Manis-Friedman

YouTube: 


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler


WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE 

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!


Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®


If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.


#intimacy #emotionalintimacy #dontbeneedy #tooneedy #RabbiManisFriedman #joyofintimacy

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse

2019-3-28

How to Help Schools Be Safer for Kids in Tough Situations GUEST: Aaron L. Smith

Season 6, Ep. 66

TOO MUCH BULLYING! TOO MANY TEEN SUICIDES!

This needs to stop, and we need to do whatever we can to stop bullying now, and intervene with bullying victims immediately.


Did you ever imagine that the internet would be so full of stories of bullying? And, then, did you think that the next thing would be too many teen suicides? Yes, it's a natural progression, but what a nasty one!


And, hey, parents! Are you teaching your children not to bully others?

Are you validating your child's self-worth at home, so they go out in the world with the self-esteem that allows them to interact in healthy ways?

Do you give your children your attention for who they are and not just for what they do?

That's your job!


Here's a few startling facts:

  • Suicide is the third leading cause of death among young people
  • Bully victims are between 2 to 9 times more likely to consider suicide than non-victims
  • A study in Britain found that at least half of suicides among young people are related to bullying
  • According to statistics reported by ABC News, nearly 30 percent of students are either bullies or victims of bullying
  • In the US, ABC News reported that 160,000 kids stay home from school every day because of fear of bullying


http://www.bullyingstatistics.org/content/bullying-and-suicide.html


>>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Many free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!


Today, Dr. Aaron Smith is here to help our audience learn how to help students in school from building relationships to changing their current situation from becoming a statistic to becoming a story.


GUEST: DR. AARON L. SMITH, Best-selling Author of Awakening Your STEM School, and of the upcoming, BLANK CHECK: Recreating America's Broken Schools


Dr. Aaron L. Smith is an expert with STEM and workplace readiness and is known around the world for his work. He assists schools, company leaders and communities to work together to develop and sustain a pipeline of competent and job-ready employees. 


A 2008 graduate of Old Dominion University with a Doctorate in Educational Leadership, Dr. Aaron L. Smith has over two decades of experience in the classroom as a mathematics teacher and administrator. 


Aaron has developed a passion for workplace readiness and STEM where he has shared his knowledge as an adjunct professor at Old Dominion University and Christopher Newport University. He and his work has been referenced over 30 times from Catcat to Teachthought.com. 

A Best-Selling Author of “Awakening Your STEM School”, and a future book coming out in 2019, “Blank Check: Recreating America’s Broken Schools.” 


Dr. Aaron L. Smith is now an expert consultant for school districts, leading communities, and individual schools to transform their educational systems to initiates, grow & sustain the creation of a pipeline of workforce-ready graduates thanks to his five-point STEMS initiative.


Aaron’s passion for workplace readiness and STEM has been shared on the local, state and national levels. He’s received the WHRO Technology Administrator Award and the Crystal Star Award from the National Dropout Prevention Center. Besides the numerous accolades, Dr. Aaron L. Smith’s proudest achievements are being married to wife and being a dad to his three kids who challenge him to reach for the stars every day.


Aaron has also been directly responsible for his former school receiving many workplace readiness related honors from becoming a PRIME School recognized by the Society of Manufactured Engineers Education Foundation to the awarding of over three-quarters of a million dollars in grants in just over four years. 


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • How to help kids who are experiencing a tough time in school
  • How to help kids feel more comfortable to talk with you as an educator
  • What to do and say when teens pretend to be disinterested in everything...especially in what you have to say
  • Ways to improve parent-teacher conferences to talk about difficult things
  • What to do when trying to help students in critical situations
  • How to know when, as an educator, you need to call in an agency like Child Protective Services
  • How to capture the interest of students in STEM subjects: science, technology, engineering, and mathematics and how Dr. Smith's school did a masterful job



CONTACT INFO FOR DR. AARON SMITH

Website:: https://WR.Solutions

Podcasts:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/WorkplaceReadinessSolutions

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Sworkplacereadinesssolutions

Instagram: 

Twitter: https://twitter.com/WorkReadiness

YouTube: 


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler


WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE 

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!


Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®


If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.


#aaronlsmith #STEMschool #kidsintrouble #parentteacherconference #workreadinesssolutions #education

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #self-love

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse

2019-3-22

How To Make Lemonade From Lemons a Hijackal Left Behind GUEST: Stepahni Roberts

Season 6, Ep. 75

Escaping the Hijackal Trap! That's the name of one of my books, AND the focus of today's interview with Stephani Roberts.


First, you have to recognize you're in a #Hijackal trap, right? Then, you have to move on to find your best next steps.


Today, Stephani Roberts shares her journey from first recognition that she was in an emotionally abusive relationship--and the red flags she originally overlooked--to the realization that for the emotional safety of herself and her girls, she needed to remove herself from the toxic relationship. Brave move! And, not without it's perils!


>>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page! <<<<<<<<


Where are you in this process? You might have tucked away your recognition of red flags to press on to get what you thought was possible in a relationship. Now's the time to wake up and smell the herbal tea on that one, and this conversation is a great place to start.


Extricating yourself from a #Hijackal is best done one step at a time, unless there is physical abuse, or sexual abuse going on. In those cases, call the police, and immediately get that on the record. But, if you can safely take your time, take your next best steps, and prepare to leave, that's the better approach. It gives you time to empower yourself, try new strategies, and make better decisions about the life you want to create once you've left.


Today's guest shares her journey beyond a #Hijackal ex, and how she definitely made lemonade that continues to sweeten her life.


GUEST: STEPHANI ROBERTS, The Authority Amplifier for Content Creators


Steph Roberts is an avid lifelong learner and spiritual seeker. She's a podcast host shining the spotlight on women freeing themselves from emotional abuse and finding a way to heal and thrive on their terms. She's a Digital Content Strategist who works with experts, coaches, and spiritual healers to Amplify their Authority online via podcast guesting and strategic repurposing of content.


"Jump off the content hamster wheel and make your content work for you by standing out from the noise," she says.


Stephani fell in love with a #Hijackal, a relentlessly difficult, toxic person. She talks about her journey to recognition of the toxicity of the relationship, and what she went through to remove herself and her girls in the most systematic way possible. Lots to learn there! She then went on to purposefully create a healthy, happy, joyful life for them. She shares what that took with you today.


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • The great healing benefits of listening to podcasts
  • Tips for recovering from a toxic relationship
  • Dating red flags you might miss
  • How a toxic relationship affects your friendships ...and, it's not good!
  • Importance of careful planning to leave a toxic relationship , leaving a #Hijackal


CONTACT INFO FOR STEPHANI ROBERTS

Website:: https://StephaniRoberts.com

Podcasts: https://AudaciousMamas.com and https://TheAudaciousLife.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephaniroberts/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephGetsSocial/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/audaciouslife/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/StephGetsSocial

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/stephaniroberts/?sub_confirmation=1


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler


WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE 

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!


Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®


If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.


#stephaniroberts #audaciouslife #audaciousmamas #lifeaftertoxicrelationships #digitalcontent

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healingenergy #self-love

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse

2019-3-7

Easing Out of Our Clutter & What Our Parents Left Behind GUEST: Sharon McRill

Season 6, Ep. 74

Any chance you have "stuff?" Or, whatever you prefer to call it!

Maybe, you've had it for awhile, and you're attached to it.

Maybe, you are always saying you're going to deal with it.

Maybe, you just inherited it from parents who have passed.

Maybe, it's a HUGE energy leak, and every time you think about it, you want to run away!


Maybe, today is the day it will all make sense how to go about deciding what stays and what goes, what you keep and what you release.


>>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page! <<<<<<<<


Clutter is something we hear about often, and read about. Somehow, this information is slanted to make it sound like clutter is always a bad thing. No judgment here! We've all heard about the positives of creative clutter, too.


What's clear, though, is that you want to have consciously decided what to keep in your possession because you want to have consciously chosen to do so. Today's interview will shed a whole lot of light on clearing the clutter, and knowing exactly what you have, and what you want to keep.


Of course, there are many kinds of clutter: physical clutter, emotional clutter, mental clutter, financial clutter, and so on. Today, of course, I talk a little about emotional clutter, and why that's just as important--if not more so in my not so humble opinion...lol--to deal with. Most often, emotional and physical clutter reflect one another, and that's a fine reason for taking the time to listen to how to reduce both today.


GUEST: Sharon McRill, Owner and President of The Betty Brigade.a personal assistance and concierge company working from Ann Arbor, Michigan


Sharon McRill likes to help busy people get things done. The Better Brigade helps busy professionals with moving, home staging, organizing, and handy-man services--with virtually anything clients need done but have no time to do themselves.


Laid off from a corporate marketing job in 2003, Sharon turned joblessness into an opportunity in the midst of an ailing economy. As a busy professional herself, she'd fantasized about having a personal assistant. She has grown her team to ten members, including professionals in organizing, home project management, and staging.


What an engaging and enlightening--in every sense of the word--conversation. Here are the highlights:


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:


  • What leads you to have an emotional relationship with your stuff?
  • Why is it so hard to let go of some things?
  • Is it necessary to let go of stuff?
  • What is helpful to replace the thoughts, "What if I need it again?" or "It's still good?"
  • What about hoarding? Why does it happen and can you help?
  • What should you do with treasures from another era that you don't really like?
  • And, what business papers do I HAVE TO KEEP and for how long?


CONNECT WITH SHARON MCRILL:

Website: https://www.BettyBrigade.com

Twitter: https://twitter.com/BettyBrigade

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheBettyBrigade/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharonmcrill/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonmcrill/


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler


WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE 

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!


Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®


If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.


#clearmyclutter #emotionalclutter #makemovingeasier #dealingwithstuff #sharonmcrill #bettybrigade

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healingenergy #self-love

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder 




2019-2-27

What is Emotional Savvy & Using it to Heal Relationships Energetically GUEST: Kerri Hummingbird

Season 6, Ep. 73

Wow! Seventy three episodes and I'm finally talking about what Emotional Savvy means.


You know that "to be savvy" means that you know what's up and what's going on. You're awake, aware, and alert. You're "with it!"


Great! You may have the practical knowledge, but it's not much use if it's not applied. Relationships require emotional savvy. Otherwise, you don't make good judgments. You don't see what's really going on, and maybe prefer denial. Not much emotional savvy there, right?


Emotional savvy covers all areas that impact our emotional lives: mental, intellectual, spiritual, financial, health, well-being, relationships--everything that impacts making our way in the world. So, some good things to think about in the first segment, for sure!



GUEST: Kerri Hummingbird, SoulGuide


Kerri Hummingbird has served as a social activist, leader, and philanthropist for over three decades. She is the founder of the Skills Not Pills Movement, and Host of the Soul Nectar show. Ms. Hummingbird inspires people to lead their lives wide awake, with an authenticity, passion, and purpose that positively impacts others.


She catalyzes mind-shifts that transform life challenges into gifts of wisdom with her Reinvent Yourself programs for individual and group mentoring. She is the author of the award-winning best-selling book, Awaken to Me: One Woman's Journey to Self Love."


She says, "Your life is for YOU. Live it how you CHOOSE. It's your secret conversation with the DIVINE."


You'll get a new perspective from Kerry, for sure. Lovely conversation. Inspiring and motivating.



HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:


  • What it means to Kerry Hummingbird to be "wide awake" in the shamanic ways
  • How to shift life's challenges into gifts of wisdom that serve you well
  • What the impact of the message "If I leave, I'll be bad" is, and how to change it
  • How to reduce your fear so you can see relationships more clearly
  • Why it's important to get into the flow of life energetically, how fear gets in the way, and how to reduce fear


Kerri's gift to you: Ebook, :Reinvent Yourself: Indulge Your Deepest Desires By Becoming Who You Are Starving To Be"

GET IT HERE.



CONNECT WITH KERRI HUMMINGBIRD:

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2019-2-20

Why We're Reluctant to Call It Abuse: One Woman's Story of Escape GUEST: April Giaque

Season 6, Ep. 72

Why are we so reluctant to call it abuse?


Today's episode starts with my response to this question. Of course, no one wants to think of themselves as being abused. So, you justify it, rationalize, and make excuses for it. Sometimes, you even decide it's your own fault! WRONG! And, I'll explain why today.


Verbal abuse and emotional abuse start small, usually. You write it off as someone "having a bad day" or "going through a rough patch." Then, you want to avoid looking at the overall patterns that are developing, right? That would mean one more thing to face in a life that's getting more difficult by the day. So, you don't.


Not a good idea! Best to wake up as early as possible, call it the abuse that it is, and make it stop. I've talked about this in so many episodes and I invite you to go through them and find the ones that are most like your situations and give them a listen now.


GUEST: April Giaque, author of Pinpoints of Light: Escaping the Abyss of Abuse


April Tribe Giaque, escaped the abyss of abuse and she's written about it in her recent book. She has experienced homelessness with her five children--three who have Autism--following her escape. Yet, she remained focused and earned her Master's degree after leaving domestic violence. She took her knowledge and experience with Autism and now helps puzzled parents, teachers, and administrators to find support, social skills and inclusion for those with Autism, helping them to thrive in school, social settings, and life.


April is remarried to Scott and has four more children (two who are also deaf) with him. She is now the mother of nine. April has taken her pinpoints of light and turned it into a Beacon of Light to enlighten and illuminate the world.


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:


  • Imagine finding that your husband has an imaginary business partner that all the money is going to!
  • When something slips from a potential personality disorder to a mental illness
  • Where the definition of your worth and value arises from
  • April's take on the power of clarity
  • Insights into what might be going on in your relationship...that you may not want to see.



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