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Expert guests & tips for getting along with the humans you care about.

Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show. Expert guests & tips for getting along with the humans you care about.Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor offers a wide range of advice on improving the way you... More
Latest Episode2019-3-22

How To Make Lemonade From Lemons a Hijackal Left Behind

Escaping the Hijackal Trap! That's the name of one of my books, AND the focus of today's interview with Stephani Roberts.


First, you have to recognize you're in a #Hijackal trap, right? Then, you have to move on to find your best next steps.


Today, Stephani Roberts shares her journey from first recognition that she was in an emotionally abusive relationship--and the red flags she originally overlooked--to the realization that for the emotional safety of herself and her girls, she needed to remove herself from the toxic relationship. Brave move! And, not without it's perils!


>>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page! <<<<<<<<


Where are you in this process? You might have tucked away your recognition of red flags to press on to get what you thought was possible in a relationship. Now's the time to wake up and smell the herbal tea on that one, and this conversation is a great place to start.


Extricating yourself from a #Hijackal is best done one step at a time, unless there is physical abuse, or sexual abuse going on. In those cases, call the police, and immediately get that on the record. But, if you can safely take your time, take your next best steps, and prepare to leave, that's the better approach. It gives you time to empower yourself, try new strategies, and make better decisions about the life you want to create once you've left.


Today's guest shares her journey beyond a #Hijackal ex, and how she definitely made lemonade that continues to sweeten her life.


GUEST: STEPHANI ROBERTS, The Authority Amplifier for Content Creators


Steph Roberts is an avid lifelong learner and spiritual seeker. She's a podcast host shining the spotlight on women freeing themselves from emotional abuse and finding a way to heal and thrive on their terms. She's a Digital Content Strategist who works with experts, coaches, and spiritual healers to Amplify their Authority online via podcast guesting and strategic repurposing of content.


"Jump off the content hamster wheel and make your content work for you by standing out from the noise," she says.


Stephani fell in love with a #Hijackal, a relentlessly difficult, toxic person. She talks about her journey to recognition of the toxicity of the relationship, and what she went through to remove herself and her girls in the most systematic way possible. Lots to learn there! She then went on to purposefully create a healthy, happy, joyful life for them. She shares what that took with you today.


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • The great healing benefits of listening to podcasts
  • Tips for recovering from a toxic relationship
  • Dating red flags you might miss
  • How a toxic relationship affects your friendships ...and, it's not good!
  • Importance of careful planning to leave a toxic relationship , leaving a #Hijackal


CONTACT INFO FOR STEPHANI ROBERTS

Website:: https://StephaniRoberts.com

Podcasts: https://AudaciousMamas.com and https://TheAudaciousLife.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephaniroberts/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephGetsSocial/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/audaciouslife/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/StephGetsSocial

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/stephaniroberts/?sub_confirmation=1


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler


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2019-3-22

How To Make Lemonade From Lemons a Hijackal Left Behind

Been with a relentlessly difficult person? The ones I call #Hijackals? You know then that they left lemons behind: bitter, twisted stories and nasty, demeaning comments, "toxic waste" that needs to be eliminated. Today's show will help!
2019-3-7

Easing Out of Our Clutter & What Our Parents Left Behind GUEST: Sharon McRill

Got stuff? Do you move it from place to place, maybe even pay for storage...for a long time? Today's guest, Sharon McRill, Owner or The Betty Brigade offers clear strategies for dealing with "stuff!" I add a little about storing emotional "stuff," too.
2019-2-27

What is Emotional Savvy & Using it to Heal Relationships Energetically GUEST: Kerri Hummingbird

You want as much emotional savvy as possible, right? Then, you'll feel more comfortable and confident in relationships. Ever thought about your energetic impact on your relationships? Big talk about what's possible with my guest, Kerri Hummingbird
2019-2-20

Why We're Reluctant to Call It Abuse: One Woman's Story of Escape GUEST: April Giaque

First, you don't want to believe it's abuse, and you justify and rationalize it. Then, it gets worse. Eventually, you have to call it what it is. Gain insights as April Giaque, author of Pinpoints of Light, shares her story of escape.
2019-2-14

Is There a Right Way or Wrong Way to Divorce? GUEST: Jennifer Hurvitz

Divorce! Who knew we could have such fun talking about it, while sharing some great tips for making your divorce less stressful. Jennifer Hurvitz, author of Doing Divorce Right, shares her humorous insights, and valuable learning.
2019-1-31

Is There a Growing Chasm Between Men & Women? GUEST: Robert Manni

What is the actual difference in ways the brains of women and men function? Important to know! Then, my guest tells you that there has never been a better time to be a man. Provocative, right? Listen in for surprises!
2019-1-23

How to Prevent Others from Stealing Your Peace of Mind. GUEST - Shanthi Yogini

Would you rather be responsive than reactive? Life is much easier when you are, right? Most people long for peace of mind. Yoga is a practice. No matter what you're spiritual beliefs, yoga is a grand addition.