What About Mediation? And, Debunking Divorce As Failing or Not Good For the Kids GUEST: Anthony Diaz

Wed Oct 31 2018 (51:57)

EMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show

with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor


What About Mediation? And, Debunking Divorce As Failing, Shameful or Not Good For the Kids 


GUEST: Anthony Diaz, The Peace Catalyst


In today's episode, I give you five solid reasons why mediation is a good choice...and, why it may not work well with a #Hijackal! There are several important things to know about mediation. Some folks don't know about them, and I wanted to be sure you did. It's important when deciding how to proceed to resolve differences in partnerships of any kind, and relationships of all kinds.


I've mediated in workplace settings, in primary family relationships, with estranged sisters in two parts of the country, with parents who have been alienated from their children for quite a while, and, of course, I've mediated many, many divorces. And, mediation is, in my opinion, the best way to go when both parties want a fair--or, even somewhat fair--settlement so they can move on with life with less stress and angst.


Things can go well, or go south, though, when mediating where one person is a relentlessly difficult person. No surprise, right?


Enjoy this segment, and learn why mediation may be the best first strategy for you.


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GUEST: ANTHONY DIAZ, THE PEACE CATALYST


Anthony Diaz, Esq. is a family law attorney and mediator specializing in resolving disputes easily, effortlessly, and amicably. In his practice, he is known as the Peacemaker. He is also a Licensed Practitioner with the Centers of Spiritual Living. As a coach, attorney, and mediator, Anthony utilizes his spiritual practices to guide others from pain to peace. He is also an international speaker whose passion, mission, and purpose are to help those in pain to move on from their divorce with dignity to co-create the life they were meant to live.


Your kids are watching! You know that, and I'm sure it worries you when you and your partner are often arguing, or worse, right? One big thing a parent has to always keep in mind is, that even at your worst moments, you are being a model for your children. We talk about that today. It's a big deal!


What about the practical things? Like coming to agree, or not? What can you expect? Anthony gives you the inside look at mediation, and what you can expect, realistically. Of course, sometimes, things just don't get resolved, and we talk about that, too.



HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:


  • Why being a model for your children needs to be a high-priority conscious act
  • What to do in the face of resistance
  • How do you choose between attorney's and a mediator
  • Is it "spiritual" to divorce?
  • How you can know if it's time to quit a relationship
  • What is Collaborative Divorce?



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