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#3 Whitney Stafford: I'm the solution

Season 1, Ep. 3

Two words repeatedly used during 2016 election coverage stung Whitney Stafford with truth and clarity: “gaslighting” and “bully.” Whitney’s Seen List reveals a history of being bullied by her brother, ignored by her family, and only recently having a conversation with her Trump-supporting father in which she felt acknowledged and seen. As Whitney describes it: “the scoreboard was gone.”


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Guest: Whitney Stafford

Host: Miranda Wylie

Producer: Myrriah Gossett

Music by: Solid State Dream Suit

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